Bondage - the ultimate fantasy pleasure

Bondage refers to using certain constraints during intercourse, in order to enhance the pleasure involved. Bondage can be done with ropes, handcuffs, chains, scarves closely related, and many more. Some couples incorporate elements of bondage at some point in their sex lives after years practice traditional sex.

Bondage requires consent of both partners and often, in the bedroom, implies a mild form. One partner may be bound, shackled, tight and often blindfolded, and other sexually stimulated by masturbation, oral sex, sex vibrator or normal. Related partner satisfaction is most often indicated by yelling, trying to unravel and whimper. Free partner can provide sexual pleasure or be sexually aroused because the dominant posture while tied partner may be excited by the position of being helpless, lying entirely in possession of another.

What is the attraction?

People are attracted to this type of play for several reasons. The fact that they are bound allows some people to relax and enjoy the pleasures offered without the need at the same time, to give pleasure to their partner's turn. Others prefer to struggle to solve or to pray, to be untied, which, they say, it offers an incredible surge of adrenaline. In addition, if you are blindfolded, all these sensations are amplified.

Does it hurt or not?

Most solid couples consider bondage something attractive and useful for their sex life, because it involves a level of trust that is not found in normal relationships. This form of sexual pleasure has its own specialized niche sites where images and movies shows related models voluntarily and who are in situations of intense sexual pleasure, thanks to a position in which they are dominated, without using the threat, forcing or pain.

What others think?

Many people find this sexual expression form as an incentive and a strong erotic stimulant, as occurs in many scenarios and fantasies. Fantasies continue to dress a certain kind of clothes. Typical clothes are subject passivity or sexual innocence (e.g., a nun, a school for women or a yoke and cuffs leather for men). At the same time, the person who dominates choose clothes that command respect, control and extreme discipline (a Nazi officer, a police officer or a prison administrator).

How does this work?

Most people who practice bondage, consider it safe when occurs between two partners that are known for a long time, being aware of the risks involved and the precautions necessary to ensure that everything goes perfectly. Precisely for this reason, the partners involved in relationships that already have several years are more open to this method of enhancing sexual pleasure.

Here are some tips that are worth your attention if you want to try or have already tried:

• Use the word "safety", which, once uttered, shows that it will not feel good and want to stop;
• Avoid positions and procedures which inadvertently could lead to suffocation;
• Make sure that the person bound can be slipped easily in an emergency:
• Do not try bondage with a person you have met little time;
•  Say from the beginning what you like and what does not, and how far it can go with this practice;

Often, these positions are dangerous or cannot be maintained for more than a few minutes, such as suspension of the links of the hip, elbows and knees. These positions can be practiced only by highly trained participants from physical and experienced in this type of practice.

Ideas for first time

For those who practice for the first time bondage can try:

• To bind each other, with exchange using silk scarves, exciting each other;
•  Linking passive partner with something that can easily be undone so that they can remain in that position only if they want;
• Fasten your eyes, kiss you and make massages;
• Use fluffy handcuffs that are soft touch and do not close as tough as in hard materials.
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