How to get started with BDSM?

Bondage is a consensual sexual practice that many adults use to improve their sex life in private. It generally involves restraining or tying up your partner using various restraining tools in order to derive sexual gratification for both. It is purely meant for erotic pleasure or for aesthetic stimulation.

Typical restraining tools involve the use of ropes, handcuffs and/or bondage tape. In BDSM, the letter B stands for bondage, but it is not a part of sadomasochism. For most adults, bondage is an end to derive maximum sexual pleasure with their partners.

Different aspects of Bondage

The most important aspect of bondage is sexuality and the temporary control of power, or submission. Couples enjoy their sexual foreplay immensely with the involvement of such bondage related aesthetics. Many couples incorporate bondage as means of foreplay in their sex life.

Typical bedroom bondage practices generally take the form of a sexual fantasy or a sexual game – intended for the couples to enjoy. These bondage practices have shown affirming results when it comes to the relationship between couples.

Use of Bondage in bedroom

Bondage does not necessarily involve the use of several tools to implement in the bedroom. It can be quite simple to try out among couples with little experience. Typical bondage involved between couples is mild in nature, and blindfolds play an important role in such cases.

Other than sexual foreplay, bondage finds its application in erotic stimulation or sexual teasing. The restrained partner is teased with oral sex, masturbation and/or intercourse while the dominant partner derives erotic pleasure.

Simple bondage techniques for beginners

 So, how to get started with BDSM with your partner? There are simple bondage techniques which you can use to derive sexual gratification. Let’s take a look at some of those techniques:

• Blindfolding – This is the most simple and easiest form of bondage that couples can try in their bedroom. It generally involves blindfolding your partner while you pleasure your partner with oral stimulation or masturbation.
• Rope Bondage – This is yet another simple technique you can use after you’ve tried blindfolds. It involves restraining the limbs of your sexual partner to create an environment of full control. The restrained partner is then sexually stimulated, thus deriving instant gratification.
• Handcuffs – After you’ve tried simple rope bondage, it’s time to move onto some kinky handcuffs. Use handcuffs for restraining your partner, while you satisfy him/her while assuming control.

These techniques can often be combined to increase the pleasure of your partner. However that requires some experience to pull off. Blindfolds and handcuffs work well together in such scenarios. Bondage is simple and fun for couples who want to spice up their sex life. Many couples around the world enjoy such easy techniques to achieve maximum gratification.